Stereotypes
I was in a funeral procession yesterday for a lady at the church. It was a long procession…and it lasted for nearly 45 minutes. I was the last car in line, with the exception of a police car that would pull ahead of me to stop traffic, then lag behind again.
At one point I glanced over and saw a man walking. Pants were hanging off him, baggy sweatshirt on, chain around his neck. I had totally pegged him. “Thug” I thought. And I’m ashamed to admit that I thought that…but I did.
As I got closer, I saw the man was carrying a hat, that he was holding over his heart. I did a double take, and as the procession finished driving by, he gave a solemn nod and put the hat back on his head. I don’t know if the man was praying, or just showing his respect, but, in those moments, the woman that had passed was on his mind…and that was important.
Whoever you are, I am sorry, and ashamed, that I would peg you so quickly.
Thank you for that lesson.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009 at 7:49 pm
Oh, I am convicted by this, what an eye-opening story…